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Ang love ay hindi minamadali, hindi pinipilit at lalong hindi kina-career.. Aray ko!
Unang-una mga BOYS, PAANO MO BA NASABING MAHAL MO NA SIYA?
+ Dahil ba natutuwa ka sa kanya?
+ O kaya naman naaaliw ka?
+ Naswee-sweetan ka ba ng sobra sa kanya?
+ Kinikilig ka ba pag nakikita mo siya?
+ At naha-high kapag naririnig mo na ang boses niya?
Eh teka muna, baka naman na-IMPACHO ka lang ESTE…. INFATUATED ka lang o kaya naman kagaya nga ng sagot mo, BAKA naaaliw ka lang. Dahil kakaiba siya, may spark na hindi mo maintindihan.
TSK! Ang saklap nyan!…
GAANO MO NA BA SIYA KAKILALA???…
+ Madali ba siyang mapikon?
+ Pano ba siya mabadtrip?
+ Madali bang mahalata na may topak siya?
+ Ano bang suot niya pag nasa bahay siya?
+ Skirt, Shorts, o pantalon?
+ Naka “kikay look” ba siya o naka-t-shirt lang?
+ Matagal ba siyang maligo?
+ Kumakain ba siya ng vegetables?
+ Tamad ba siya?
+ Mas gusto ba niyang manood ng tv kaysa magbasa ng libro?
+ Nagp-PSP ba sya?
+ Tatlo ba ang pamangkin niyang lalaki? (ANONG KONEK?! LOL!!)
+ Makukulit ba yung mga kamag-anak niya?
+ Green ba ang kulay ng gate ng bahay nila? (ANO ULIT ANG KONEK?!!)
+ Sa village ba siya nakatira?
+ May sakayan ba ng jeep na malapit sa kanila?
+ Nagsisimba ba siya linggo-linggo?
+ Kasama ba yung pamilya niya?
+ At nagdadasal ba siya bago matulog???…
In short, alam mo na nga ba ang mga bagay-bagay? Ang mga simpleng bagay tungkol sa kanya, na nagdedetermine ng sarili niya. As in kung sino ba talaga SIYA.
10 Signs That You’re Dating a Commitment-Ready Guy
Are you ready for a relationship that is going to lead somewhere without you being led on? It’s time to start weeding out the commitment phobics and put your time and effort into men that are looking for the kind of relationship you want — one that has a future. If you’re interested in getting married, ignore these at your own risk.
Here’s what to look for:
1. His friends are married
If you are interested in a guy, check out his friends’ left hands to see if they have wedding rings on.
“Research has show that if his friends are already married, he’s more likely to get married.”
Research has show that if his friends are already married, he’s more likely to get married. If all of his friends are still single and in the “party-with-the-boys” phase, that’s a bad sign.
2. He’s financially secure
Studies show that men who own a home are more marriage-ready. A man who is generally financially stable, and has his ducks in a row, feels marriage is a practical next step for him.
3. He pursues you
The guy who is commitment-ready is going to initiate doing things with you. If you’re emailing him and he takes days to email you back, if you have to text him to find out where he is, if you are always calling him, you’re chasing a man who’s probably not marriage-material.
4. He’s willing to wait
Yes, research is telling us what we already know: If a guy gets to know you before getting intimate, he is more likely to commit.
5. He watches DVDs with you when you’re sick
Taking care of you when you’re sick shows that this guy isn’t just in it for the fun and sex. If he wants to be with you in bad times, it’s a sign he’s in it for the long haul.
6. He gets to know your friends and family
A guy who is thinking long-term wants to truly get to know you. Seeing you interact with your family and friends helps him learn where you come from and more about who you are. The flip side of it is that he will also want you to get to know him! He’ll want to see if you fit in with his family and friends. A guy who keeps you separate from the important people in his life is just playing around.
7. He says, “we” instead of “me”
When he switches from “me” to “we”, that’s a sign he’s committing to you at a deeper level. If your guy is all, “I”, “me”, and “my” instead of “we” and “us” in conversations after you’ve been dating a while, his mindset is still in single guy mode.
8. He’s not afraid of compromise
“A commitment-ready guy is going to ask your opinion, consult you about decisions he needs to make, and has the ability to meet you half-way.”
A commitment-ready guy is going to ask your opinion, consult you about decisions he needs to make, and has the ability to meet you half-way. A bull-headed guy who needs everything his way or it’s the highway, isn’t ready for the compromise that’s naturally part of a mature relationship.
9. He doesn’t need excuses
Commitment-phobic guys always have an excuse about why they can’t be with you on Saturday night, why they didn’t call, and why they aren’t ready for a relationship right now. A commitment-ready guy doesn’t need excuses, he just needs you.
10. He likes being in a long-term relationship
Some men like being in a monogamous relationship and some don’t. The sooner you realize and accept this the better. If he complains all the time about needing space, treats you like a giant burden instead of a gift, and keeps talking about taking things slow, he’s telling you he’s not ready for a commitment. On the other hand, if he’s done with the party scene, enjoys your “couple time” together, and has a strong sense of family, you’ve found a commitment-ready guy.
PS. Got this at Yahoo! Personals
Listen to this y’all
PS. Hindi ako yang kumakanta pero super galing niya diba, I so love her voice.
to all my ladies
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE….
enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own,
even if she never wants to or needs to
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
something perfect to wear if the employer,
or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
a youth she’s content to leave behind
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
a past juicy enough that she’s looking forward to
retelling it in her old age
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
one friend who always makes her laugh
and one who lets her cry
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for a meal,
that will make her guests feel honored
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
a feeling of control over her destiny
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to fall in love without losing herself
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend without;
ruining the friendship
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
when to try harder
and WHEN TO WALK AWAY
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
that she can’t change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
that her childhood may not have been perfect
but it’s over
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
what she would and wouldn’t do for love or more
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to live alone
even if she doesn’t like it
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
whom she can trust,
whom she can’t,
and why she shouldn’t take it personally
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
where to go
be it to her best friend’s kitchen table
or a charming inn in the woods
when her soul needs soothing
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
what she can and can’t accomplish in a day
a month
and a year
PS. Hindi ko original na gawa to, nakuha ko lang sa friend ko sa multiply and gusto ko lang i-share para ma-inspire din kayo. 