10 Signs That You’re Dating a Commitment-Ready Guy
Are you ready for a relationship that is going to lead somewhere without you being led on? It’s time to start weeding out the commitment phobics and put your time and effort into men that are looking for the kind of relationship you want — one that has a future. If you’re interested in getting married, ignore these at your own risk.
Here’s what to look for:
1. His friends are married
If you are interested in a guy, check out his friends’ left hands to see if they have wedding rings on.
“Research has show that if his friends are already married, he’s more likely to get married.”
Research has show that if his friends are already married, he’s more likely to get married. If all of his friends are still single and in the “party-with-the-boys” phase, that’s a bad sign.
2. He’s financially secure
Studies show that men who own a home are more marriage-ready. A man who is generally financially stable, and has his ducks in a row, feels marriage is a practical next step for him.
3. He pursues you
The guy who is commitment-ready is going to initiate doing things with you. If you’re emailing him and he takes days to email you back, if you have to text him to find out where he is, if you are always calling him, you’re chasing a man who’s probably not marriage-material.
4. He’s willing to wait
Yes, research is telling us what we already know: If a guy gets to know you before getting intimate, he is more likely to commit.
5. He watches DVDs with you when you’re sick
Taking care of you when you’re sick shows that this guy isn’t just in it for the fun and sex. If he wants to be with you in bad times, it’s a sign he’s in it for the long haul.
6. He gets to know your friends and family
A guy who is thinking long-term wants to truly get to know you. Seeing you interact with your family and friends helps him learn where you come from and more about who you are. The flip side of it is that he will also want you to get to know him! He’ll want to see if you fit in with his family and friends. A guy who keeps you separate from the important people in his life is just playing around.
7. He says, “we” instead of “me”
When he switches from “me” to “we”, that’s a sign he’s committing to you at a deeper level. If your guy is all, “I”, “me”, and “my” instead of “we” and “us” in conversations after you’ve been dating a while, his mindset is still in single guy mode.
8. He’s not afraid of compromise
“A commitment-ready guy is going to ask your opinion, consult you about decisions he needs to make, and has the ability to meet you half-way.”
A commitment-ready guy is going to ask your opinion, consult you about decisions he needs to make, and has the ability to meet you half-way. A bull-headed guy who needs everything his way or it’s the highway, isn’t ready for the compromise that’s naturally part of a mature relationship.
9. He doesn’t need excuses
Commitment-phobic guys always have an excuse about why they can’t be with you on Saturday night, why they didn’t call, and why they aren’t ready for a relationship right now. A commitment-ready guy doesn’t need excuses, he just needs you.
10. He likes being in a long-term relationship
Some men like being in a monogamous relationship and some don’t. The sooner you realize and accept this the better. If he complains all the time about needing space, treats you like a giant burden instead of a gift, and keeps talking about taking things slow, he’s telling you he’s not ready for a commitment. On the other hand, if he’s done with the party scene, enjoys your “couple time” together, and has a strong sense of family, you’ve found a commitment-ready guy.
PS. Got this at Yahoo! Personals
Google Fun!
1) Type in “[your name] needs” in Google search:
- ANGIE needs an AGENT to become an ACTRESS
- ANGIE needs your help
- ANGIE needs a hero
- ANGIE needs love
- ANGIE needs a global block again
2) Type in “[your name] looks like” in Google search:
- ANGIE looks like trash!
- ANGIE looks like an angel
- ANGIE looks like she’s very dominating
- ANGIE looks like a 90 yr old
- ANGIE looks like a bobble head
3) Type in “[your name] likes” in Google search:
- ANGIE likes halo
- ANGIE likes to say ‘Queef’ by Obi-Wan Gaynobi
- ANGIE likes to bang on precious metals
- ANGIE likes to be dominated
- ANGIE likes to spend her free time bird & squirrel watching, just like the average cat
4 ) Type in “[your name] says” in Google search:
- ANGIE says she and Brad will get married when the kids ask
- ANGIE says: It’s over
- ANGIE says ‘oops’ over censorship
- ANGIE says good bye
- ANGIE says I have to update
5) Type in “[your name] wants” in Google search:
- ANGIE wants him back
- ANGIE wants to dress up Brad
- ANGIE wants more babies
- ANGIE wants to kill you
- ANGIE wants a home
6) Type in “[your name] does” in Google search:
- ANGIE does global education
- ANGIE does the cyclone
- ANGIE does Washington
- ANGIE does this or that?
- ANGIE does not have any contacts as of this moment
7) Type in “[your name] hates” in Google search:
- ANGIE hates feet
- ANGIE hates me
- ANGIE hates Brad’s dress sense
- ANGIE hates botoxed women like Jen
- ANGIE hates being pregnant
8 ) Type in “[your name] goes” in Google search:
- ANGIE goes home
- ANGIE goes green
- ANGIE goes Hollywood
- ANGIE goes cross country
- ANGIE goes shopping
9) Type in “[your name] loves” in Google search:
- ANGIE loves peanut M&M’s
- ANGIE loves you
- ANGIE loves shoes too
- ANGIE loves dogs
- ANGIE loves her vampire
10) Type in “[your name] is” in Google search:
- ANGIE is a genius
- ANGIE is feeling pretty good
- ANGIE is pissed
- ANGIE is friendly
- ANGIE is restless
Plurk! Plurk! Plurk!
I’ve been pretty much active in the plurk community this past few weeks and I must admit that I am loving plurk more than twitter because twitter is always on it’s reed color status which I really hate seeing on my firefox browser. If you are wondering what plurk is, it is also the same as twitter but it also has this Yahoo Messenger side in which you can interact more with people.
I you don’t have a plurk account yet then better make one now. I’ll be waiting for you there. Just follow the instructions given and you’ll be plurking your way now.
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New haircut
I was really looking forward to have this hair cut since forever, that was exaggerating but I really am looking forward to have my hair cut and I finally did. I was really hoping of having ala Jessica Alba hair but it didn’t went out like that. Nevertheless, I still love my new hair and it’s wayyyy to short compared to my old hair.
Here’s the original plan of what I want my hair to look like.
And here’s my new haircut.
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Frustrated Photographer.
I really am a FRUSTRATED PHOTOGRAPHER pwede na din frustrated model pero more on being a photographer. That is the reason why I opened an account on deviantart just so I can post my so-called photography but whenever I will have the chance to see other person’s gallery sobrang naiinis ako sa sarili ko kasi ang pangit pala nang mga kuha ko.
Minsan iniisip ko was it because of the camera that I am using or hindi lang talaga ako ganun ka-knowledgeable when it comes to photography. Ewan pero siguro both reasons will do, hahaha. Kaya nga minsan naisip ko na mag-enroll sa school na meron photography class kaya lang naisip ko din na gastos tsaka hassle pa yun kasi ang daming kailangan bilin na mga gamit for photography use. Kaya nga nagtry na lang ako na mag-self study at baka naman in due time maging kasing galing na din ako nang ibang mga photographer.
Ang drama ko sobra.
Visit niyo na lang deviantart account ko para makita niyo mga so-called photography ko. Syempre, magiwan na din kayo dun nang comment para naman alam ko na napadaan kayo dun.
Frank naman!
Ayan na naman ang tag-ulan at nangunguna na si FRANK sa pangungulit at pagsira nang kung ano-anong bagay na makikita sa kapaligiran nang Pilipinas. Hindi bagay sa akin yung masyado maging makata, hahaha.
Nakaka-asar talaga, dapat meron kaming lakad kaninang 6am kasi birthday nong Tita ko kaya mag-ce-celebrate kami sa Somethin Fishy, Libis hindi natuloy kasi nga mga around 4:30am ata lumakas na yung ulan. Hindi ko masyado alam kasi tulog na tulog ako ngayon lang ako nakatulog nang ganito kahimbing kaya pagbigyan na, hahaha. Paggising ko pa kaninang umaga wala na kaming ilaw, kamusta naman yun. Anong oras na kami nagka-ilaw, sana naman wag na mag-brown out.
Sa tingin niyo meron kaya pasok ang college bukas? Malamang noh. Kasi naman ang college umulan o umaraw lagi meron pasok, hahaha. Wish ko lang wala para naman makapagpahinga pa ako kahit isang araw pa, bitin kasi pahinga ko. Kamusta naman na kahit wala akong work nang Saturday and Sunday dala ko pa din yung work ko dito sa bahay. Kasalukuyan akong nag-e-encode nang names nang students ko sa Attendance Monitoring Sheet pero sana naman bigyan nila kami nang soft copy para naman copy-paste na lang gagawin namin, hahaha.
Kakain na ako nang mainit na sabaw ang lamig kasi sobra.
Listen to this y’all
PS. Hindi ako yang kumakanta pero super galing niya diba, I so love her voice.